Men are always attracted towards a woman with a challenging personality, the one who brings out the best in them. But what goes wrong is when most of the women focus on their own needs and insecurities instead of on the feelings and experience they create for the man.
And because of all this its no wonder that she is unable to attract a man. No doubt the woman satisfies all his needs, letting him know about her affection for him but none of that has any affect on the man’s psychology. But only when learn how to affect the deep parts of a man’s psyche will you get his undying love and attention.
Below are given some useful tips:
1. Understand: Choice Is Everything
The most important factor is who you choose for a relationship so one of the ways to make him commit is to understand the reality of the relationships. So the first and the foremost thing that should be there between you and your partner, is trust and compatibility.
Sometimes the relationship starts out well but disintegrates with time, the reason being lack of understanding and compromise between the two. And its with time that most of the men realize that its not just a pretty face that counts but its someone with whom you can pour your heart out.
We should let go of our ego and a false sense of identifying with relationship success.Real relationship success is not about making a relationship with someone work when, at your core, you and he are ultimately incompatible.
Its a fact that your partner should be sexually attracted to you. Although its not the only thing but still a requirement. But even then we should be reassured with this fact that beauty is not the ‘ end all be all’ of this relationship. Even then its advisable that we should try to be as attractive as we can.
Most of us have insecurities and a low self-esteem feeling that our appearances are flawed. But we should remember that nobody is perfect and owning your imperfections will make you more attractive. Insecurity stinks of desperation and desperation kill attraction.
3. Reach Him Deeply
To be someone who is really irreplaceable, in your partner’s eyes, you have to reach deeply into the depths of his personality to inspire him.You have to question your self and find that what special should you do to hold that special place in his heart.Men have a deep unconscious fear that their life, their contribution to the world and their existence is pointless, , and insignificant. At the same time, every man has hopes, dreams, and aspirations.
A man needs to be pursuing his deepest aspiration and his “mission” in life in order to lead a fulfilled life so as a woman you should to inspire him to do that.
4. Put Energy Into The Right Places
Instead of wasting our energy in worrying and stressing, we should put our energies in the right places in order to make our relationship strong. If you are fixated on your own fears and insecurities you won’t have enough time and energy to work towards a stronger and long-lasting relationship.
If we have any bitter past experiences, they should in no way color our present day relations. Because if you do so then be sure that your partner will either get fed up and leave you or if you succeed in hooking someone then he may take advantage of you and cheat.